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To expect to stay centered in this hectic, stressful world without a daily spiritual practice is like expecting to be a musical virtuoso without lessons or practice. It can’t be done. And it is a matter of practicing, practicing, practicing until I know who I truly am – a beautiful Soul on a spiritual journey, becoming, through practice, a spiritual virtuoso.
Sometimes I need to give myself the grace that I readily give to others.
Now is the time for us to allow our hearts to be cracked open. Now is the time for us to see clearly and to call out injustice, while at the same time manifesting a compassionate and loving spirit into the world.
While anger is seen mainly as a negative emotion, it can also be a very useful and powerful force for change.
Women’s March – Austin, Texas, October 2, 2021 My Right as a Woman I marched in the Women’s March on Saturday. It was incredibly inspiring to stand shoulder to shoulder with thousands of women (and the men who support them) who believe […]
My Right as a Woman
I marched in the Women’s March on Saturday. It was incredibly inspiring to stand shoulder to shoulder with thousands of women (and the men who support them) who believe in the right to control their own bodies. There were all ages, grandmothers like me, small daughters, and everything in between. All races and genders stood together to demand the right to bodily autonomy. As woman after woman bravely stood and talked about choice and reproductive freedom, I was inspired to be braver. I was inspired to speak my truth more clearly and openly.
Here in Texas, I am surrounded by so called pro-life Republicans. Many of the people I know are deeply religious, and they are unable to see the irony on being pro-life just until a child is born. If they were truly pro-life, then it should matter to them what happens to a child after birth, not just while it is in the womb. It should matter to them that there is poverty and hunger and racism and child abuse.
It should matter that the life, physical health, and mental health of a fully grown woman, not to mention a 12- or 13-year-old victim of rape or incest, might be at stake if she is forced to bear a child. They are unable to see that forcing a woman to bear a child can, in itself, be life threatening. They fail to see that abortion is also health care.
Statistically it is more dangerous in the US for a woman to carry a child to term than to have an abortion (20.1 deaths per 100,000 vs .44 deaths per 100,000 respectively). The US leads the developed world in maternal mortality, and Texas is number 42 in the country with 34.5 deaths per 100,000. That puts Texas behind countries like Uzbekistan – 29 per 100,000; Malaysia – 29; Armenia- 26; Turkmenistan – 7; and United Arab Emirates – 3.
I am not criticizing anyone’s deeply held religious beliefs. I just don’t want those beliefs to infringe on my own or any other woman’s bodily autonomy. When a woman, in the eyes of the law, becomes just a vessel to bear children, she is no longer an independently functioning human being with rights of her own. In the eyes of the State, she becomes a second-class citizen. When she is not allowed to make her own fundamental health decisions, she in essence becomes a ward of the State. She is no longer free. A friend shared a very practical treatise, not on the morality of abortion, but on the legality and constitutionality of the laws that have recently been passed. Even if you have already read this, it is worth a second read.
Patriarchy has long held that women are the property of men. It has only been a few short years since women have been allowed basic rights long held by men. For example sex discrimination in employment was prohibited in 1964; the right of married couples to use contraception was upheld in 1965; no fault divorce was instituted in California in 1969; Title IX was passed in 1972 and prohibited sex discrimination in sports; Roe v Wade was upheld in 1973, allowing women the right to legal abortion; housing and credit discrimination was only ended in 1974; and states were no longer allowed to exclude women from serving on juries in 1975. It seemed that women were well on their way to being allowed the autonomy that is the right of every human being.
However, there is a patriarchal backlash to all these recent freedoms. The enormous push to take away a woman’s right to her own body has gained more momentum, and in less than 50 years, we are on the verge of once again becoming victims of the State in regard to pregnancy. Even more chilling is the idea that anyone can sue a woman or anyone who might help her get an abortion. This not only takes away a woman’s autonomy but also incentivizes someone to spy on women and helpers alike. Naziism anyone?
The same people who scream about a mask mandate taking away their freedoms are forcing women to endure (life-altering at best and life-threatening at worst) nine months of pregnancy and a lifetime of responsibility. Should it not be our decisions to make as female human beings? I am well past childbearing age, but I want my granddaughters to have the same rights as I did. I want future generations of women to have agency over their own bodies and the ability to make decisions about childbearing that are right for them and their families. It is not the job of government to control our uteruses. It is our own right and our own responsibility.
I know that not everyone who reads this will agree with me. However, I am hoping that it will foster an understanding of why I and thousands of others believe that it is the woman’s right to choose.
My purpose is to channel this incredible love to everyone. This is my superpower, and it is your superpower. The more we all tap into that power, the more that the world can begin to heal.
The brokenness and vulnerability of grief forces me out of myself. It opens me to a new way of seeing, to a new breadth and depth of empathy and love. It connects me to others in a way that nothing else does. It is the one language that everyone eventually speaks and understands.
Rather than deny what I am feeling, I will use my feelings as a catalyst to action, as a catalyst to create more love, to raise my vibrations to higher levels of love and gratitude.
Healing, if looked at through a spiritual lens, is not of the body. Healing is for the soul. While our bodies may have an incurable disease, our life’s purpose is to be at peace with our own souls.
“Strong women aren’t simply born. They are made by the storms they walk through.”
Understanding Compassion
